In October of 2015, I wanted to create a bigger practice. I wanted to expand my reach as an LOA (Law of Attraction) Teacher and offer teleclasses and private sessions on the phone. I wanted to be a full time coach.
At the time, I was doing marketing and business development for a small souvenir shop near my home. I was a prolific writer and a great coach with 1 active client.
I thought I had clarity. I thought I knew for sure what I wanted. I just didn’t know how to get there. I had read Pam Grout’s book, E-Squared and I was intent on only doing what I felt inspired to do. I stopped doing things that I didn’t want to do. I listened to Pam’s books and Abraham Hicks Youtubes…..that is what I preferred so that’s what I did.
I heard on an Abraham Hicks recording that there are many different ways that the Universe can deliver what would delight us, a least 7, Esther proclaimed.
I decided to conduct an experiment. I wrote a story about just one possible way that my practice could grow and become sustainable.
Here’s that totally made up story, written 10 months ago:
I remember the day it occurred to me that money might REALLY be able to flow easily. For some reason I finally understood the power of my mis-belief that it is hard to attract money, that I have to work hard to get it. That there is something wrong with letting go of the effort, the to do list, the strain to make it happen.
What if it isn’t that hard I thought to myself. What if indeed. After that day, I began to imagine being magnetic to money. I remember laughing out loud walking Bella at the beach “seeing” myself with 100 dollar bills flowing to me, sticking to me, like I was a real magnet. What if I WAS a real magnet?
Part of me did not believe that alignment was enough
Could it be that combining my restored primal energy with my alignment, intentions and purpose boosted my ability to actually feel magnetic. What if feeling deeply aligned, relaxed and at ease is the magnetic state?
Up until now, a part of me did not believe that alignment was enough. It didn’t seem possible that finding that sense of deep alrightness was doing anything except making me feel peaceful. Sure it is peaceful, but it also feels like the engine is in neutral, because there is no action. In truth, there is no efforting, and that feels delicious.
I know how to find alignment. For sure. But until that moment, I didn’t have the same assurance that the aligned state was doing something on my behalf. That the state itself was taking action, or maybe allowing action.
But the image I saw was so real
Hundred dollar bills naturally drawn. Like an invisible tornado, a vortex whirling with power and pulling in bills and coins surely, naturally and inevitably.
All of a sudden I was hit with a tangible knowing, something that I really felt. Bigger than confidence, sweeter than self assurance, this change in my awareness tipped the scale.
Within days of that moment, money began to materialize. Successful men stepped in out of the blue to learn how to date. Luis, David, Ian, Lee and Keith were the first.
Men with good hearts and real love for women. Men who want to learn from a woman exactly like me. My dream come true. I love working with men. I love the connections I form with them.
There is a fun, flirty rapport
I am crystal clear on my intentions and fully confident in my ability to keep the boundaries I need to keep. The men are so cool. The conversations are powerful and they are walking away with great new perspectives on how a woman thinks and what they really want. There is a fun, flirty rapport that disarms defenses and guys get fast results.
Luis was the best. He is so handsome, charming, likes to dance. The Yin/Yang emblem resting in tasteful chest hair announces his gentle self, yet his presence is very masculine. He brought a yellow legal pad to the first meetup and I could tell he was really connected to the message.
I took him on as a client the following week
He was fabulous! He listened and acted on the suggestions we came up with. He was super open to the Law of Attraction message and we had great discussions on the phone. His big aha was about taking several women out at a time and putting his sexual involvement off until he could really get to know the women first.
Once he accepted this new way of dating, his confidence sky-rocketed! The women were so drawn to him that at one event, he texted me an SOS right from the venue!!
It is worth the wait
I am so happy being a Dating Buddy/Wing Woman for men like Luis. He is exactly the kind of man I choose to work with right now. I don’t say yes to everyone. It is worth the wait to have the passionate men who truly want to connect with women find me. There are more than enough Luis’ in the world. I buzz with gratitude every single day. Magic really does exist.
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As it turns out, 10 short months later I am indeed a full time coach. I host two LOA meetup groups in San Diego and teach teleseminars and private clients on the phone. However.
I am not working with men. While I do have a male client, the other 19 are women. Some are learning to apply the Law of Attraction to their love lives though most are focused on business success and achievement. Nothing like my made up story or is it?
I am having the joy and delight of a dream come true
Am I disappointed that I am not living out exactly what was in my story? Not a chance!! I am having the joy and delight of a dream come true. I can coach my students while I am walking my dog on the beach. I can coach from anywhere and get to work at home without a boss.
I have students who are on my wavelength and are making great strides in living more and more with LOA in mind. Students are getting new jobs, more money, new clients, new romance and new homes.
Write a story!
The moral of the story? Write a story! Write a crazy story about how your desire comes to you. The crazier the better! Send me a copy I would LOVE to see it!!
If you want a story but don’t want to write it yourself, send me a note and I can guide you or write one for you!