Has someone gotten on your last nerve?
Do you have people in your life who take advantage of you? Do people belittle or undervalue you? Hooray!!! You are in the right place!
Being upset is a sure sign of a success block. That means when you need to complain you can leverage it to build charisma. Ready to try?
Complaint Control Is The FASTEST Way To Change Your Situation.
No matter who you are, it can be brutal to control the urge to complain, belly ache and whine! What’s a determined personal development lifer to do??
Here is another tool for your success kit. This Quick Detachment Gizmo is super simple to use and will help you keep your cool under pressure.
Every time you tell your story here instead of complaining to another person, you build stronger self esteem, charisma and personal magnetism. Every time.
Step 1: Pick One Event or Person. Rate from one to ten. How frustrated/annoyed/upset are you? Create an intention to detach from that situation, experience or person in love and for the highest good of all involved.
Step 2: All you do is type out your entire complaint. Don’t hold back. The Universe can handle every word. Once you have vented completely, DUMP IT. (Think of all the negative sound energy you are NOT sending out into the airwaves! Biggest Hug for your discipline)
Detachment is the Secret Sauce!
Step 3: Next you take a series of deep breaths while the detacher does its work to help you let go of the drama and transmute the negative energy for you.
Step 4: Once your dump is done, rate the event once again on the scale of 1 to 10. If you are still upset, repeat all steps. Use as often as you wish!
Step 5: Share The Complaint Cure. Do you know anyone who is stuck and complaining more than they should be? Share this page with them. Challenge them to a 21 Day No Complaining Challenge and be each other’s accountability partner. Let’s make some magic!
Bonus Step: Take a minute and add a series of your favorite affirmations. Finish with a rant of what you feel best about in your life right now. For sure something has surprised you in the last month. Celebrate that! Then Dump and Detach from that too.
For more tips and tools for creating magnetic mindsets, hit me up at manifestfaster.com