One of my favorite #LOA Manifesting Techniques is to write letters from fantasy characters to myself, some of them real human beings.
It started when I was dealing with a thoughtless family member. I am sure you have one or two of those. This person, who shall remain nameless, was getting on my last nerve. I deserve an apology from this person, or so it appears.
And yes, I have stresses and PIAs (Pain in the Asses) in my life just like the next guy.
I just work the work of pointing my mind and my thoughts into the direction I choose. Day in, day out, day after fabulous day. Is it always easy? Of course not. I have seen some very intense times. Times I didn’t feel like doing another process or watch another Abraham video.
Well, I recently had just such an experience. A PIA family member of mine had committed to going out for dinner and a movie. We hadn’t seen each other for awhile and I was looking forward to it. In what isn’t the first time, he bailed on me. I’m used to him doing this and sighed when I heard trying to regroup. It was then I remembered how good I feel when I write my own apologies.
That’s right, I speak as if I was the person who hurt my feelings. I pick exactly what words I want to hear…and I write them to myself!
I have done it quite a bit this last year and many times after I write it, the person actually does reach out with an apology. It is the craziest darn thing. This story, sent to me by one of my readers who I have renamed to protect privacy, is a stunning example of what can happen when you even have the willingness to see the offense as apologizable.
How does this melt blocks?
Simple. You hold tight protective energy because of the harm done by others. Every time you allow yourself to soften that energy, you strengthen your magnetism. Every time. Take a look at this powerful true story of how this technique worked for one of our Lounge Members. (The Lounge is where I hang out with my friends on line!)
Hi Catherine,
Happy New Year! 🙂 I must share with you… Do you remember our phone call last month? We talked about my ex-husband and you recommended to write an apology letter to myself from him….?! Anyway, 12/13/16 I wrote one to myself and it set me free…
Yesterday, 1/8/17 my Ex called me and left me a sincere VM (we haven’t talked since the divorce and that’s been over 2 years) how sorry he is and how inhumanely he treated me…he choked up in tears many times… That he broke and interrupted my life and others.
I believe something happen; either his sick, one of he’s parents are sick or he got a DUI and has to go through the 12 step program.
I’ll forgive him! For my sake, peace and healing. It was very weird hearing his voice and choking. I cried but my heart felt warm. I’m over him but it felt freeing to hear the apology from him. I won’t respond to him for a while, I need to digest first.
Over and over again I find that when the Universe actually does show up and do the magic, that is when I get out of the way and cooperate, miracles happen. For this lovely woman to humbly write her own apology allows the hurt places within her own heart to finally have a voice. To think that it worked to draw an apology from the real offender is pretty amazing, right?
Curious? Try this technique yourself, it is sneaky effective!!
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