New Experiment: Can Tapping Into Feminine Energy Make You More Magnetic?

Does pumping up your Feminine Energy make you more magnetic?

And if it does, what about for guys? Is there feminine energy available for both men and women? What is the deal?

I was moved today by a particularly delicious Abraham Hicks video about “The Receptive Zone” and it inspired me. I hit up google because I was curious about femininity and receptivity. Here is the video, around seven minutes it gets really interesting! Click here: Where you are right now is ok!

As for me, whenever I get sluggish or it feels like I am stuck, a little dose of feminine energy will usually perk me up.

I, like many women I know, am pretty masculine in energy. Long time single women are used to taking care of all of life. Without a male partner to share in the tasks of a household, we pick up a hammer, plunger, jumper cables, ladders and fix everything ourselves.

But. Look at this. Maybe neglecting our feminine side can slow down manifesting.

Sara Chetkin says in innerself.com “We are all very familiar with this energy because our culture glorifies these traits, but what about the feminine energy? The yin aspect of self is associated with night or darkness, inner potency, pre-manifestation, introversion, and receptivity (stillness!).”

Even worse, many over masculinized women have a real hard time asking for help.

Independence is a lovely thing, until you get a flat tire. Don’t get me wrong, I love my single life and I am definitely getting better asking for help. Recently I asked a guy friend of mine to help me with my car. He replaced the distributor while I got to watch. (I love watching a man fix a car, there is something about a guy leaning under the hood….)

What I bring you today is a Feminine Energy Experiment.

Now that the Invisible Money Experiment is wrapping up, I am taking a week vacation. During this week, I am doing the Feminine Energy Experiment and I hope you will join me. Details below. I love thinking about you focusing on Building Feminine Energy Momentum with me while I am away.

Here is one way to tell if you have an imbalance in masculine and feminine energy, especially if you feel feminine and not very masculine at all. Do a “body audit.” If you have tightness, stiffness, sciatica or any joint or muscle issues on the right side of your body, you might have too much masculine energy activated.

[Bonus Manifesting Tip: If you read this list of feminine energy enhancers and some of the ideas upset you or make you angry or fearful, pay attention to that. Resisting feminine actions could be a major clue to you in your hunt to get over your resistance!]

The Femininity Experiment – For the next week (or longer), choose ideas from this list and try a softer side on for size. Please reach out with a comment and let me know what happens.

By the way, even though I may be ok with my “tomboy” persona, if being overly masculine is keeping me from my heart’s desire, I am open to being more girlie. In fact, I wear dresses pretty much every day in the summer. That is fairly new behavior for me.

Maybe there is something to the idea that Feminine Energy is the secret sauce for turning on manifesting power. Want to join me? Choose at least three of these to focus on for just one week for starters. Nurture your vulnerable, softer self. If I can do it, you can too! LOL. Let’s see what happens!

Ways to Celebrate Your Feminine 

1. Make it a priority to find women who will support you unconditionally, and spend time with them on a regular basis.

2. Release any guilt you may feel about being “girly,” participating in “traditional” roles that feel right to you, and in engaging in feminine activities that nourish your soul, mind, and body.

3. Allow men to celebrate their masculine.

4. Create a plan to spend time on a regular basis in a way you find nourishing – and stick to it.

5. Compliment yourself when you look into a mirror.

6. Any time you have a negative thought about yourself, “erase” it and replace it with ten positive thoughts or compliments.

7. Appreciate that calm and emotionally wholesome relationships provide opportunities for personal growth.

8. Exhale, and allow yourself to be confident and secure in the wisdom of your womanhood.

9. Exercise in ways that feel comforting and supportive of your beautiful, womanly body.

10. Appreciate that nature creates, just as women do, and make efforts to spend more time in it.

11. Celebrate your body as a temple, and delight in the gift of your sexual nature.

12. Greet personal growth and exploration with childlike openness and eagerness.

13. Genuinely like yourself.

14. Appreciate the menstrual cycle as a time for reflection, renewal, and self-nurturance.

15. Empower yourself during pregnancy and in birth, and trust that your body is a divine being of creation with inherent self-knowledge about the process.

16. Step out of your comfort zone, and then applaud yourself for your bravery.

17. Wear frilly, soft pajamas or undergarments for your own pleasure.

18. Allow yourself to flirt innocently and smile at the world.

19. Decorate your environments in ways that uplift and inspire you to be your best self.

20. Recognize that it is healthy to want personal time, and step fully into it.\

(Thank you Caroline A. Shearer for your ideas in this experiment. Caroline is the founder of Absolute Love Publishing)