Masterminding Work!
Thanks for keeping your eye on my Money Experiment. Tonight’s Mastermind Call will include a demonstration of Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT – Energy Tapping). I would LOVE to have you there!
Here is what the Money Mastermind calls are about:
Weekly Money Magnetizing Experiments – If becoming more attractive to money is a personal challenge, these weekly experiments bring you the accountability you are looking for to keep you on track.
Last week we did an experiment on changing a bad habit. I picked not getting the dogs out for a walk first thing in the morning. I put off the daily walk to early afternoon, for no good reason. LOL
Well, tonight I am going to be PROUD as punch to come to the call saying, “I walked the dogs before 9 am every day since last week.” lol
I didn’t dare miss a day because I didn’t want to face you and say I was too lazy to get up and get out early. That’s the damn truth. But guess what happened?
I had a very productive week, lmao. Uni has such a sense of humor!
Meanwhile I went on two dates.
This is the embarrassing true confessions part.
I am single and available but haven’t met too many guys down here in Baja yet. Both were fun. Both involved eating in beautiful surroundings. Both included music and good conversation. However, one of them was with a man older than me.
I accepted a date with an interesting but quite a bit older man because I made a deal with Uni. I committed myself to saying yes to social invitations when my introverted self wanted to stay home. Dang self commitments.
Yesterday was the date and I caught myself whining and complaining. Moi!!! Not out loud, oh no, I am WAY too smart for that. LOL. I have learned the art of the inner eye roll and the inner snarky comments and am a master. Up until now.
Now that I am accountable to my private chat group, I just had to rescue my day. I was sick and tired of myself. Whining and pining inside that I didn’t have to go. Maybe he will cancel. Maybe I can cancel. Blah Blah Blah.
Knowing that I am teaching about positive thinking, I heard myself and made a decision at noonish to shut my mind up. Napoleon Hill says over and over that a human has one task. Just one task to guarantee success. How can I mess that up, right?
The one task Napoleon promises that will make everything right again is to take control of my own brain and point it in the direction I want it to go in. Just like a car, point my mind in the direction I want it to go in and my brain will take me there. Do I believe this crap or not.
Deep breath. It is noon, the date is at 5.
Even though my mind was acting like an unruly teenager, it slowly cooperated and these are the new thoughts that I wrote, said out loud and thought about on purpose for the rest of the afternoon:
I am listening to really fun music.
I am tasting delicious food.
I am sipping a really delicious cocktail.
I am watching people all around me.
I am basking in the attention of another human being.
I am celebrating that a man took action and asked me out.
I am letting myself be taken care of. (This one didn’t feel right because it felt too vulnerable, but I kept it in there.)
I am practicing my dating and conversation building skills.
I am trusting that Uni brought this event to me for a reason.
I am using my cringe from this man’s over eagerness to refocus me on training my cotton picking brain
You will never guess what happened?
Every one of those things happened, every one. The night wasn’t perfect but I was. I was completely satisfied with the evening. He asked me to see me today and I told him I had plans. I did, with myself. I will see him again if he asks because I had a truly good time.
What I learned was that I was making myself miserable with all that inner eye rolling and snarking. I was the only one who could shape myself up.
I truly didn’t expect the night to be as fun as it was, just goes to show you, Uni knows best. The coolest part of the night was when the handsome young latino singer turned to see me smiling at his beautiful voice, he connected with me and that was delicious!
What I know is that it took time and practice for me to switch my mood like this. That is why I use EFT so much. My live really started to change with energy tools. Here is a great video that explains why tools like EFT can do more in 15 minutes than weeks of therapy.
https://youtu.be/eB-vh6VWdcM Dr. Bruce Lipton explains energy work.
I hope you are free tonight for the training call. I will be demoing EFT, my favorite thing to do in my private chat community on Skype. Simply leave a comment on this post l and I will get you the credentials to get into the class tonight! I would love to meet you!!
The Monday Money Mastermind Trainings are no charge and held in Skype every Monday night at 6 pm pacific time.
Thanks for keeping me accountable! Love telling stories on my own pesky mind. What about you, do you catch yourself inner eye-rolling and snarking? What’s your favorite energy tool? Leave a comment and let me know!