Over the last several months, six to be exact, I have been researching Dominant and Submissive men. The reason? As an erotica writer, I attract lots of men who are not getting enough sex, or so they say.
When I began writing about submission in the bedroom, literally hundreds of men lined up and volunteered. I receive hundreds of messages from eager readers who “just want a dominant woman to do whatever she wants to me.”
Is this exciting to me? No. As a dominant/alpha woman, I am not available to make a submissive man’s fantasy come true. Even though some beg and plead (certainly not sexy), I stand strong and state the truth.
If you want to be with an alpha woman, you must find a way to get her attention without coming across as needy or helpless. Strong, dominant women are not attracted to needy and helpless men.
One of the training techniques I use with submissive men is to send them to these two videos. This concrete demonstration of true female dominance does all my talking for me. Take a look and check it out for yourself. Which of these two well known actresses is more dominant in your view?
What about you? How does your energy transmit to the world. Are you an Alpha woman who hasn’t ever found the right man? Are you misunderstood at work or in your social relationships? Is it hard for you to be fully dominant in your world? Join the convo in the comments below.